This toy really does make me squirt...  

Allow me to introduce you to my friend, my buddy, my pal, the njoy pure wand.

We first met a few years ago at a fellow sex toy connoisseur's house. I was staying the night, and she was busy watching the news, so I asked her if I could borrow her Hitachi Magic Wand (back massager by day, Mr. Microphone by night).

She said sure... but I should try out her new toy first. New toy? I was intrigued. We walked back to her play room, and she introduced me to my future best friend. It is stainless steel, 1.5 pounds, and beautifully curved... but how do I use it? I thought out loud.

She smiled and said, "You'll figure it out," and left the room, leaving me to figure out how to get acquainted with my new friend. I got comfortable on the vinyl-covered "bed" in her play room, turned my Hitachi Magic Wand on, aimed it down at my clit, inserted the slick stainless beauty into me. Even though *I* didn't know what to do... All it took was a gentle rocking back and forth, and my body started to purr.

Not a minute later, I could hear the results. Yes, hear. The toy, which I later dubbed "the G-Spot Grenade," targeted and massaged my G-spot like no other toy, or partner, has. A few moments later, aided by the vibrating wonder of the Hitachi Magic Wand, I came... experiencing one of the most earth shattering, mind-blowing orgasms of my life.

And then I looked down. Let me be blunt: I don't squirt. Or, didn't. Before me was vivid evidence that squirting, or female ejaculation to be proper, was something anyone is capable of, even me. I'd dribbled, or "soaked the bed and I'm not sure why" a few times before, but nothing like this!

I went in to see my friend, diligently watching the latest news program. I pet the stainless toy, stuttering... "mmmm-mine."

She laughed, shook her head, and understandably said no. She did dig through her credit card receipts and found who she'd bought it from; at the time I was managing a sex toy boutique in Los Angeles owned by my friends Freddy and Eddy; we bought—and sold—every one that was made before the 2005 holiday season.

My new friend is named the pure wand, by a fabulous company called njoy toys. I've since become their biggest fan, and have told more people than I can count the story of how I met the njoy pure wand. I now understand more about how squirting works, and can do it even without an orgasm (but why would you go and do that?!?)

Here's how you do it, in a nutshell. Put the njoy pure wand inside (whichever end is comfortable for you), pointing towards your navel. Rock the wand back and forth, using the opening of your vagina as a pivot point. This will massage the surface of the the urethral sponge that we can touch, often called the G-spot, by moving against it in a come-hither motion. Squeeze the sponge with your PC muscles or by having an orgasm—I like to cheat and use a vibrator on my clit at the same time—and the moisture comes out. It's that simple.

The pure wand just makes it even simpler.

I've even had to buy the Fascinator Throe, a water-barrier sex blanket, to keep my bed dry. Really. And my boyfriend LOVES to watch, or participate in, the show!

I've joked about starting a fan site for this the pure wand, then finally bought this domain to celebrate it's goodness. Even amazing woman and porn star-turned-sex educator Nina Hartley sings the njoy pure wand's praises: she gave a fellow porn star the njoy, and a few days later, she came back and starred in Nina Hartley's Guide to Female Ejaculation. The pure wand was also featured in O: The Power of Submission, used by Justine Joli on Carmen Lavana. Hot!

Here's what the manufacturer has to say about the njoy pure wand:

More than a sex toy, this object is a lifetime work of art, suitable for tasks both inside and outside your bedroom. Insert either end of this fabulous wand into your partner for amazing g-spot orgasms or anal ecstasy, practice Kegal exercises for more intense sexual pleasures, or simply grab your favorite massage oil and use the njoy to relieve those tight shoulder and back muscles.

Hand-crafted from highest grade stainless steel, the njoy will last forever and is easy to clean with mild soap and water. Measures approximately 10" in length, with each end measuring 1" and 1.5", respectively. Weighs 1.5 pounds and comes with a lovely padded box for safe keeping.

Convinced? Then buy one. I believe in this product so completely, I'll even pay for shipping.

~ Jenn Ramsey

$110 (shipping included within the US)

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